I’m almost embarrassed to present Day 8: it’s much more comfortable to admit being apologetic (Day 7 if you missed it) than manipulative. However who has never taken advantage of the power of making the other one feel guilty? I certainly did.
Enjoy Cartoon 8!
Carole
Reflecting on this cartoon, choose a situation in which you could be either manipulative or direct when asking for help. Notice the differences, and if you’d like, share them with me.
Manipulative…Me? I don’t have a manipulative bone in my body. I only speak the truth and sometimes pointing out to the other person how little they have helped me when I have done so much for them… Oh, now I see what you mean. Hmmm! My internal martyr seems to be a little out of control. Let me get back to you on this.
You really get it, Ian!